January 2008

Why dying young is great for your reputation

Heath LedgerHeath Ledger’s untimely demise has inevitably prompted a raft of articles and features about the loss of a potential acting genius.

I agree (and let’s face it, who wouldn’t) that it’s terrible that he died at such a young age, and clearly he had a lot of potential, but the people who are claiming it’s the loss of another acting genius are surely misguided.

Yes, his performance in Brokeback Mountain was impressive and he fully deserved the plaudits he got for it.

His soon-to-be seen turn as The Joker in the new Batman film is also being talked about as a bravura performance, although that remains to be seen.

But one look at Heath’s CV will tell you that there were as many (if not more) misses than hits. For every Monster’s Ball, there is a Four Feathers or a Ned Kelly and for each Brokeback Mountain, strike a Candy or a Brothers Grimm.

I wonder if Heath will be viewed in 10 years time, in the same way that people look at the likes of River Phoenix or James Dean.

Dean, for example, only actually appeared in three movies. Yup, his entire legend is built on his performances in Giant, East Of Eden and Rebel Without A Cause. Surely he wouldn’t always have been that good, would he?

And yes, River Phoenix was good in My Private Idaho and Running On Empty, but other films, most notably his last Silent Tongue, prove that not everything he touched turned to gold.

I know it’s the thought of unfulfilled promise that fuels the legend with early death, but there are many young actors whose careers flop after early success.

Let’s just remember people for who they were and what they did when they were alive, rather than what they would have been?

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Quantum of Solace

Daniel Craig as James BondSo the title of the new Bond film has been announced and, inevitably, criticised immediately for being impossible to understand.

OK, so the Quantum of Solace isn’t as immediately understandable as You Only Live Twice or The Man With The Golden Gun, for example, but it does have a certain mystery about it.

In fact it has echoes of a Philip Pullmann novel, an adaptation of which Daniel Craig has recently starred in.

The title actually comes from an Ian Fleming short story, published as part of the For Your Eyes Only collection back in 1960, so it’s genuine enough.

And for all the doom-mongerers out there who think it’s too esoteric, just be thankful the producers didn’t go for one of the other titles from the same collection

Can you imagine hearing about James Bond’s latest adventures in The Hildebrand Rarity?

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How to rile friends and alienate them forever*

The answer to the title of this post is, of course, have kids!

Spotted this great piece on Monday at work and then Clair reminded me of it in her post.

The thrust of the article (if you can’t be arsed to read the link) is that having kids really shows up the cracks in your relationships with your friends, especially if they are childless.

The point being, the child-free friends don’t get why their friends have a complete life and personality change once they’ve sprogged.

Meanwhile, those couples now weighed down with nappy-changing, bath-times, sleep routines, etc get riled when their childless friends can’t or won’t do what they used to do.

I know I’ve been guilty of putting my kids above my friendships in certain cases, but I’m well aware that in a few years, my daughters won’t want anything to do with ‘boring old dad’, so I may as well enjoy the time I have with them now.

Equally, while I’m not arrogant enough to think that ‘you don’t get it, if you don’t have kids’, there are certain things that are impossible to empathise with if you don’t have a rugrat.

The thing is, everyone takes to parenting differently, and everyone’s children are very different and throw up their own individual set of challenges.

And most of us don’t really change that much - it’s just that there’s another person (at least) to think about when we make decisions about, well, pretty much everything.

Funnily enough, I think it’s possible easier to keep your up with childless friends, if you are in the suburbs and don’t live in London. There’s something about the sprawling metropolis that makes any journey longer than a mile seem like such a schlep.

Anyway, to those childless friends of mine out there, I haven’t totally forgotten about you and I still care. I guess I’m just tired and far less interesting than I used to be!

* Apologies to Toby Young

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